1) Treat your partner as if you're dating
2) Romance your spouse outside the bedroom
3) Plan a date night
4) Talk with your partner
5) Listen to your partner
6) Understand your partner's sexual needs and desires
7) Keep physically fit and attractive for your partner
8) Maintain perspective on sex as life ebbs and flows
9) Resolve any underlying conflicts as they will spillover to the bedroom
10) Have fun and engage in foreplay, whether that's kissing, sexual banter or anything else
11) Be adventurous and creative in and outside the bedroom
12) Exercise, preferably together
13) Stop smoking and get your partner to quit
14) Watch your weight and cholesterol
15) Consider seeking specialized treatment from a specialist if behavioral changes don't work
16) Do not put a TV in the bedroom
