Sex on the First Date – Yes or No

Sex on the first date has been a question for women for decades now. It is nothing new. Every book on dating will tell you that it is a bad idea so generally women have accepted that it is not the smartest move. Even guys, if they are being completely honest, will say that it is not a good idea if you are looking for more than just sex. So why is it still a question?

It may seem to many women out there that all men think about is jumping into bed. First date or not. They want sex without having to pay the price of getting to know the person or building a trusting relationship. So then does it not follow that women who sleep with men on the first date are not the type of women that men marry?

If you fall into the category of women who sleep with men on the first date then you might have several "casuals" that you have on speed dial whom you can call for a night of fun and this might lead you to believe that you are popular. Yes, you might have a variety of men you can booty call but try and find one that you can have a serious conversation with or a date that does not involve sex. This becomes harder.

Sometimes a woman does not want to overthink or even think about things and just wants to have sex. There is nothing wrong with that as long as you are not expecting a relationship to spring out of it. You shouldn't always worry about what the guy will think about you. Sometimes you should just do as you feel.

There is not hard and fast rule for this one, I'm afraid. I am not saying that it is always wrong to have sex on a first date. I am saying your decision should depend on what you are looking for at the time.

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