…Fun:  Try something exciting out of bed. When you try something new it drives up dopamine and testosterone levels, which are both linked to sex drive.  In bed, touch each other everywhere excep [ ... ]

It caused me to think when I was recently asked by the woman I was seeing how many women I had slept with.  I gave her my usual answer of “I don’t know. Around 20.” That has been my answer for  [ ... ]

It is not news that people are waiting until they are a bit older until they get married. No worries or problems there. Though this waiting has brought with it a whole new crop of issues. One  [ ... ]

So now we fast-forward twenty years into the present; Julie left her phone number along with a New York area code on my answering machine. I really wasn't sure about who I was calling until  [ ... ]

It was about four years ago and I was listening to my messages when, to my complete surprise, I recognized an almost forgotten but still familiar name. I had not heard from Julie Smith since my  [ ... ]

We've all heard the stories about 50-something men who walk out on their wives for a 20-something young thing or who go out and buy a fancy, expensive, convertible red sports car. The quest [ ... ]

In a sort of weird homage to the Montreal International Auto Show (which is happening January 14-23, 2011) I thought about making a list of top 10 cars to have sex in. Why you ask? Well, it was [ ... ]

Every January the single people out there tend to make New Year's resolutions concerning the area of love and relationships. They vow to find Mr. or Mrs. Right and when they do to hold on t [ ... ]

Am I just getting older or was 2010 a mess of a year sexually? No marriages seemed to last, plenty of infidelity and when celebrities got caught they claimed to be sex addicts. Celebrities like [ ... ]

In today's world we like to pretend that we are progressive and all for women's rights. The key word in that sentence is "pretend". The masses are all for women's right [ ... ]

Typically the holiday season is a tough one for the single folks out there. Everyone around you seems to be coupled up and all activities seemed geared for duos. Fear not, in my books the holid [ ... ]

Over the course of our lives most of us are going to get married or settle down with one person. What that means is that you can no longer have on night stands with strangers or meaningless sex. [ ... ]

As we all are aware men are from Mars and women are from Venus. So if we go from that point then it is logical that there are some major misunderstandings from each of the sexes about the other. [ ... ]

Anthropologist Barnaby Dixson of New Zealand conducted a survey recently to try and find out what men really found most attractive in women. This supposed scientific study came up with the fact  [ ... ]

Now normally I hate rules. I usually go out of my way to break them. But when it comes to relationships you really have to establish some limits or rules or everything will end up a mess. With [ ... ]

It is the time of year for the U.S. Open - one of the four Grand Slam tennis tournaments. All eyes are on tennis and its players. Some players have more eyes on them then others and it is not j [ ... ]

I had heard whisperings but I did not believe that casual sex had gone out of style until I heard the queen of sex herself Lady Gaga say that she does not have casual sex anymore. She claims to  [ ... ]

As the world has been going soccer or football crazy during this edition of the World Cup, I began to wonder to myself why soccer players are the hottest athletes. On each team there seems to be [ ... ]

With almost everyone in the developed world having access to the internet and using social websites like Facebook what if anything have they brought to the game of love? Technology has been tryi [ ... ]

No matter how awful a relationship is it seems like we still go through the stages of pain associated with the end of one. Whether he cheated on you, she nagged you to death, he didn't resp [ ... ]

Are you the other woman? Even if you don't think so, if you are dating a married man you are. Not that long ago this situation was totally taboo but now it is more common. There are even  [ ... ]

Sex on the first date has been a question for women for decades now. It is nothing new. Every book on dating will tell you that it is a bad idea so generally women have accepted that it is not  [ ... ]

Whenever you ask a woman what the number one quality she wants in a partner nine times out of ten the answer comes back as "I want a man who will make me laugh". It's not about hi [ ... ]

As women get older and remain single should they lower their standards when it comes to finding a life partner? Should they wait until they are head-over-heels in love (whatever that is) or shou [ ... ]

With Valentine's Day just around the corner love is really in the air...and in the stores...and on television commercials. It's everywhere. Though it is all around us it is still some [ ... ]

Sex is a vital part of any non-platonic relationship. Or at least it should be. Women agree it is. Men live by that code. Sex is a way that couples communicate with each other and so it should [ ... ]

I need someone to explain this whole Edward Cullen phenomenon for me. It has been many a year since we've seen ladies - young and old - react this forcefully to a fictional character that t [ ... ]

Ever since those trio of ever so cute Jonas Brothers declared that they would remain virgins until marriage all of a sudden chastity has become cool again. Or has it? Not according to some wome [ ... ]

There's plenty of mystical stuff attributed to the last night of each year. A big alcohol fuelled party happens in most major cities of the world and Montreal is no exception. As a result  [ ... ]

It has been something that has happened through the ages. Women have gotten pregnant thinking that this is the way to save their ailing marriages/relationships. When a woman feels that a relati [ ... ]

For time immemorial men have dated and/or married younger women. Despite the fact that it has been laughed at as a cliché they continue to do so. Even though women claim to find older men  [ ... ]

Due to shows like "How I Met Your Mother" we hear plenty about the proverbial "wing man". A wing man is a friend of the guy looking to hook up with a girl who offers support  [ ... ]

Most of us are aware that it is different strokes for different folks. That is especially true when it comes to who we date. One person's prince or princess is the next person's frog. [ ... ]

Jealousy is a hard thing to pin down. It can rear its ugly head in a moment and be completely unpredictable. It can be the downfall of a relationship. Eating away at the trust of a relationshi [ ... ]

Those of us who are still looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right are always thinking about how to meet that person. That is despite the fact that in this technological age there are more and easier ways  [ ... ]

It has been a well-known joke for years that men will say just about anything to get a woman. Have you women out there ever thought about all the outrageous things you have had a man say to you  [ ... ]

For many even today being non-monogamous relationships seems unhealthy and immoral. Human beings believe they are wired to be with one person at a time and any other set up is thought of as just [ ... ]

Have you been cheated on? Have you caught your husband with his secretary or your wife with the sexy pool boy? Do you feel as if your life is over? Do you feel the need for revenge?

Almost all  [ ... ]

Feminism often gets a bad rap when it comes to the love game. It is often looked at as the second worst 'f' word in the English language. Ever since feminists were erroneously classif [ ... ]

When humans lived only 30 to 40 years getting married as a teenager was not thought of as odd. If you were a woman and not married by the age of 20 you were thought of as an old maid. Today we  [ ... ]